MOVING BACK TO NIGERIA: DO I REGRET IT?

MOVING BACK TO NIGERIA: DO I REGRET IT?

So far so good, the year 2019 has been nothing short of amazing. I have accomplished things that I thought where not possible to attain, though I was indeed tested and tried in different ways and by different situations but I pulled through.  I think one of the major decisions I had to make in [...]

Mistakes: They Are Essential To Your Becoming

Mistakes: They Are Essential To Your Becoming

It is common practice to live your life avoiding this mistake or that mistake or making mistakes altogether. But is it really the right way to live as we grow and advance in our lives? Does it really make us better people or does it rob us of certain experiences? I have lived life carefully [...]

Independence: It is not enough

Independence: It is not enough

Most of us, strive to become independent. It does feel empowering to be independent. Even I, have at some point in my life longed for same. There are however different layers or levels to independence. Some wants to be financially independent, others aim for independence in their businesses, relationships, from family, among others. The more [...]

Sympathy: It Can Be Toxic

Sympathy: It Can Be Toxic

Most times people will tell you to share with someone your problems, that problem shared is problem half solved. Well, while I couldn’t agree more with that, it is something that I rarely do. Here's my thought process about how I deal with personal challenges. I never share my predicaments with friends or family or [...]

A Letter to The Millennials

A Letter to The Millennials

Dear Fellow Millennials, “What counts in life is not the mere fact that we have lived; it is what difference we have made in the lives of others, that will determine the significance of the life we lead.”Nelson Mandela I have lived long enough to know that my days here on earth are numbered, and [...]

My Contemplations: On Creativity

My Contemplations: On Creativity

I have come to accept myself for the eccentric and intense person that I am, with all my quirks and weird personalities. Sometimes I wish some of my personalities were just a mere persona or façade, but they unfortunately aren't. Interestingly, I have come to understand and embrace some and I am loving them. I [...]

Self-Belief: Do You Feel You’re Less Qualified?

Self-Belief: Do You Feel You’re Less Qualified?

Our experiences often shape our perspective about things that happens or that we go through in our lives. I use to be the type that believed often that I’m not good enough for this or that, so why should I even try. Sometimes opportunities will present themselves but that mindset of I am not the [...]